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BLOG: The Secret to a Perfect Date

Emily 22/7/2017

The perfect date night. Jeez! The pressure of that statement makes my butt cheeks sweat! Now I’m not saying that perfect date nights aren’t obtainable, but there’s some saying about best laid plans … and something about them not really working out? Whatever, my point is that often high expectations lead to bitter disappointments.

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BLOG: A Letter To Myself

Emily 21/12/2016

Let’s be honest, as Christmas rolls in even the least sentimental of us take 5 minutes to reflect on the year just gone. Yes, Christmas brings with it the threat of Cliff Richard playing when you turn the radio on, but it also brings the promise of a fresh start and a new year in a mere matter of days. I’m not particularly sentimental, so the 5 minutes I spent in deep reflection started with a focus on all the crap things that went on this year – to me; my family; my friends; friends of friends.

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BLOG: How To Find Love At Christmas

Emily 14/12/2016

Christmas is always an interesting time in the dating world, mainly because there’s a shit-tonne of booze flying around (more so than usual) and so office flings start, condom sales go up and hangover regret kicks in.

I know. I did ALL of it.

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BLOG: Fed Up Of Terrible Dates? How to enjoy dating again

Emily 30/11/2016

I am not a good panic shopper and I know it. But in the past, it was the only way I purchased clothing. The panic shopping response is triggered when all of a sudden, you realise that every item of clothing you own is shit. And I mean, all of your clothes. All of them. Utter crap.

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BLOG: How to create the opportunity to meet awesome men

Emily 30/11/2016

There are no decent single men out there! And Suzie knew this to be true. Tinder was full of dickheads posing next to a sedated tiger (seriously?). All then men in her office were married or had some degree of halitosis. And the last blind date she went on was with a guy called Frank who asked her to pay the bill because ‘she had a better job’ than him.

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BLOG: What To Do When He Doesn’t Call (God I hate that!)

Emily 22/11/2016

It can be frustrating and annoying all rolled into one - find out how to deal with it!

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VIDEO: Why Men Can't Commit

Emily 16/11/2016

Dating. Let’s get real. It can be a confusing and overwhelming game. Or, as a client of mine once referred to it, a total head-fu@k. It helps to know how men think and what compels them to want to see us again (assuming we want to see him again of course. If he’s a douche-bag then none of this applies. Finish your drink, get out of there quickly. Ain’t no one got time for that!). So, I’ve been speaking to the men for you and they’ve confirmed what I’ve always seen as the top 5 dating turn offs that make men not want to see you again.

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VIDEO: 5 Things You Must Avoid Doing on a Date

Emily 8/11/2016

Dating. Let’s get real. It can be a confusing and overwhelming game. Or, as a client of mine once referred to it, a total head-fu@k. It helps to know how men think and what compels them to want to see us again (assuming we want to see him again of course. If he’s a douche-bag then none of this applies. Finish your drink, get out of there quickly. Ain’t no one got time for that!). So, I’ve been speaking to the men for you and they’ve confirmed what I’ve always seen as the top 5 dating turn offs that make men not want to see you again.

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VIDEO: Men hate this!

Emily 4/11/2016

Ladies, I've been talking to the men for you! And they've told me all about their biggest pet hates when it comes to dating women.

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Are you losing yourself to your relationship?

Emily 18/10/2016

I spoke to a client yesterday who came to me because her partner of 2 years had ended their relationship which he called ‘stagnant’. She found herself facing more than just a broken heart. She realised she’d been living someone else’s life for the past 2 years and now faced building her whole identity again.

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VIDEO: Sneak Peak!

Emily 18/10/2016

A few days ago, I held a sell-out workshop for awesome women who wanted to know everything I've learnt about how to effortlessly attract awesome men and how to build phenomenal relationships. Today, I'm sharing a few of the many magic moments from the workshop with YOU!

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VIDEO: I Believe...

Emily 4/10/2016

Our beliefs influence our behaviors in all sorts of ways so it makes sense that we pay attention to them and ditch the crappy ones for inspiring ones. In this short, hilarious video, I share some kick-ass beliefs which you're welcome to use.

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VIDEO: Say THIS! Not THAT...

Emily 20/9/2016

In this short and hilarious video, I give you 5 simple yet effective lines to use in every day life so that you too can gracefully engage in the art of conversation (kinda important in the world of dating and relationships).

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VIDEO: How to show him you're interested!

Emily 13/9/2016

This video is for you if you have ever stayed home on a Friday night, wondering where all the decent men are. If that's not you, watch it anyway because it's funny.

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VIDEO: Where the F%#K are all the men?!

Emily 7/9/2016

This video is for you if you have ever stayed home on a Friday night, wondering where all the decent men are. If that's not you, watch it anyway because it's funny.

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VIDEO: How (NOT) To Read A Guys Mind

Emily 30/8/2016

This video is for you if you've ever been asked what your superhero power would be and secretly, your answer is TO BE ABLE TO READ HIS MIND!!!!! And if that's not you, watch it anyway because it's funny.

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VIDEO: How Men Talk (NOT)

Emily 16/8/2016

You are successful, interesting, graceful and witty... Until your crush walks into the room. And then you turn into a tw@t! Embarrassing!

Check out this short, hilarious video and please learn from my mistakes!

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VIDEO: How (not) to wait for him to reply

Emily 19/7/2016

Hands up who's ever driven themselves crazy waiting for a guy to reply to a text message. And keep your hand up if, as a result of waiting you've DONE some crazy stuff. Well you'e not alone.

Check out his hilarious video and let me know how much you relate AND find out how to go from borderline obsessive, to relaxed and confident. And please, learn from my mistakes!

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BLOG: How To Avoid Bad Dates

Emily 12/7/2016

Ever been on a date with someone who bored you so much that you actually considered sticking a fork in your own eye, just as a form of entertainment? Well I hear ya sister! Been there, done that.


Here’s the thing about dating. There are strategies which I have honed over the years which can reduce the chances of dating an absolute w@nker.

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VIDEO: How (not) to talk to a man

Emily 5/7/2016

Ladies, do you ever find yourself wondering if men are actually speaking a different language? Or why he just doesn't... get you! This hilarious video highlights the very different ways men and women communicate and as always, it comes with an added gift from me.

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VIDEO: How (not) to behave on the first date

Emily 28/6/2016

Hands up who's ever been on a terrible date! And keep your hand up if YOU have been a terrible date yourself. I know I have in the past. Check out his hilarious video to find out if you've ever been guilty of doing any of these dating no nos. And please, learn from my mistakes!

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BLOG: 5 Style Tips to Instantly Boost Your Confidence

Emily 21/6/2016

I am not a pretty sight when I wake up in the morning. Regardless of how well I removed my make up the night before, there’s always mystery mascara shadowing my eyes and if I’m lucky, a crease down my cheek from the pillow. I mean, who doesn’t want to look like Scar from The Lion King for the first half of their day?

Click below to read my 5 style tips that will help boost your self confidence

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VIDEO: How to Make Online Dating Work for You

Emily 31/5/2016

Does your online dating site give you nothing but losers? Or men only after one thing?  Or does the very idea of online dating give you the ickies?

Well, it's here to stay, and just quietly it has also been responsible for hundreds of thousands of marriages! So hey, it's worth investing a little time in a decent profile... Just in case!

Check out this video to find out what makes a great dating profile!

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VIDEO: Say This and Have Him Chasing You!

Emily 24/5/2016

Ladies! Are you fed up with chasing men? Would you like to know exactly what to say to have them chase YOU for a change?

I get it. For years I never knew what to say to keep a guy interested. I didn't know that there are some very simple phrases which when used properly, guarantee to make a guy feel like he just can't get enough of you. The moment I knew what to say, everything changed. My clients LOVE using these 3 simple sentences that are proven to keep a man interested. So check out this video and find out for yourself!

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Have you ever found yourself faced with having to make the decision about whether to end new relationship or give it one more chance? Are you seeing a guy that you really like but you're not sure if he likes you back in the same way but you really want it to work? Are you scared that if you don't make it work with this guy, then there might not be any other chances?

Then this video is really going to help you get some clarity.

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VIDEO: How Men Think

Emily 3/5/2016

Do you ever get frustrated with your partner when he doesn't seem to be listening? Or are you tired of waiting desperately for a guy to text you back? Are you fed up with feeling rejected when you don't get the immediate response you want from a man?

This short video will definitely help!

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VIDEO: Signs You’re Losing Yourself To Your Relationship

Emily 26/4/2016

Ah those glorious heady days of a new relationship! Don’t you just love it when he finally realises just how amazing you are and wants to start spending all of his time with you?

Everything he does makes you laugh or swoon. And you, Girlfriend! Well look at you just being glorious and sexy and interesting! Who needs the outside world when you can have Sunday-Funday in bed with your new favourite human?!

Fast forward a few months, and suddenly yet another Sunday of lolling around in bed, watching re-runs of Downton Abbey (he just can’t get enough of it! Jeez, enough already!) and eating last night’s cold pizza seems less romantic. In fact, it’s all quite boring now frankly. You my friend, are in danger of losing yourself to your relationship.

Watch this quick video and find out WHY it’s important to TAKE ACTION immediately to rectify the situation.

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Why Some Women Always Get The Man

Emily 14/3/2016

I love a good avocado. And living in Melbourne, that’s a good thing. It is seriously impossible to find a decent café that doesn’t have smashed avocado on some kind of gluten free, nut free, dairy free, seed free, impossibly healthy yet terribly processed bread. It’s the signature brunch dish in this city right now and I love it, frankly. I think part of the reason a good avocado is so satisfying is because it’s got such short window of perfect ripeness, but when you get it right it’s so worth the reward.

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How To Avoid Bad Dates

Emily 29/02/2016

Are you fed up with feeling like you're on a roller-coaster when it comes to dating? Do you swing from feeling excited and pumped to feeling dejected and disappointed? Well the good news is, it doesn't have to be his way. Check out this video to find out how to avoid the swing of dating emotion.

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How To Avoid Bad Dates

Emily 29/02/2016

I have had some of the worst dates in dating history. I mean, truly shocking. And, embarrassingly I have been the worst date on more than one occasion. Over time though, I’ve (finally) worked it out. But it’s taken me almost 2 decades, hundreds of clients and some humiliating experiences.

Now, I get to share everything I’ve learnt with fabulous women like you!

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The Secret No One Is Telling You About Love

Emily 23/02/2016

I love a good movie. Popcorn, a choc top ice cream (mint, always), a family sized bag of Malteasers which I refuse to share… Life doesn’t get much better than that my friend! But the thing I love the most about a simple (yet calorific) trip to the cinema, is that I get to escape reality for a couple of hours. I get caught up in the glitz and glamour and it’s glorious. But here’s the thing. When I leave the cinema I know I’m returning to real life. And although you’re probably thinking… “duh, because you’re not crazy!” you’d be surprised how many clients I speak to who need a reality check.

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My New Website!

Emily 18/02/2016

It's ALIIIIVE! Welcome to my new website. I'll be slowly migrating some of my content over from the old site as well as new weekly upsates on That Crazy Thing Called Love! So make sure you keep checking back - I don't want you to miss anything!